What no one told you but you eventually mastered...

Life,

Life is a journey with mountains and valley, grounds and oceans,soft and hard, destinations and paths, straight and crooked,happy and sad moments. But one thing for real no one gives  a glimpse of how life actually is; via birthdays, its all wishes and goodies yet no one tells. Hence life is a classroom with different lessons everyday, in other words it's a movement forward. 

This movement forward is determined by oneself. Your illusion your reaction to what is happening around you;determines who you in this journey. You got to steadfast you puddles and balance it for yourself ;you can be a "softie", "mommy's boy", or our "child kind" of person but there are surely some lessons that you have take on by yourself. Allow me not put words in your mouth or reveal my whole  postulation here but wena you know what I am talking about,probably you are nodding to this. 

Well, we are taught how to pray, how to cook, how to greet the elders and the list goes on. Fine, we can nod to those but, we're you taught how to propose a girl? 🤷‍♀️How to party all night? Life is a journey;we learn as we go not even grow. Meaning we learn at every place we find ourselves, at any time. Did you hear about passive schooling? Maybe yes maybe not, this is when you learn something new from a conversation you are not part of it. You might hear two people having their conversations either in a cab or mall and picked up sentences you are interested in with new information on how to do ABC, this way passively learnt, thus we learn as we go. 

Sail your wagon firmly each day because life is a journey and you can not conclude that you finally reach your destination. Strive for growth even in old age. Assist others where you can and just enjoy the journey called life. 

Picture:for illustrations only, taken at flamingo Beach Walvisbay. Credit:Celma

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